Casual Dating Advice
Like what is commonly believed, you make fewer mistakes when you keep your mouth closed. Thus, without further ado, there are top 5 things you should not say to a woman when you want to hook her up.
No.1: Can we meet and go out on a date sometime?
Though you have only had an online interaction, a woman wants to go out and be with a man who can be in control; not someone who would ask for her permission to hook up and hit on her. Never ask a woman permission to take her out. The key here is to ask her out in a more confident way. You can just say, “We should meet out.” Or you can even tell her a specific place to meet like: “Hey, we should see this movie together, it will be fun!”
No. 2: Have many guys have you already slept with?
Why would you ask this? Do you really want to know? Second thing is by asking this question, you are showing her that you are insecure. Well, if she asks the question first, why not? However, if you will be the one to start this topic, you will definitely lose!
No. 3: Anything that gives her hint about the future.
When guys hang out with women for the first time and she says something like what she likes, a guy would often use this opportunity to give her a hint of a future date. For example, if she says she likes Chinese food, then you should not say you like it too. In theory, this may sound really good but you have to remember that women like a guy that seems challenging to them. If you keep on giving hints that you like something to do in the future, then you are implying that she has already won. Remember, you are hooking up so the winner has to be you or it has to be even! Do not let her know that she has won very quickly or you will end up like any other guy she has gone out with!
No. 4: Do you like me?
If there’s one phrase that automatically shuts the attention of a woman permanently, it is the phrase “do you like me?” Asking a woman this question is the opposite of the word confidence. So never ask, if you assume she likes you, then live with the assumption.
No. 5: What do you want to do on our first encounter?
As the old saying goes, a woman likes a guy with a plan and without a doubt, this applies to hooking up! When you tell your online date that you like to hang out, you should have a definite game plan. Do not put the burden on your date or else, she would not see you as the guy who can give her a really good time!
