The Drama Queen
It been my experience over a number of years and a host of female friends that there are some women who are just not the marrying kind. No matter how hot they look in their adult dating profile pics, they are just danger past the “no strings booty call.” This, coming from a woman herself. I would love to be delusional enough to state there are no types of women that men should avoid, but that would make me a hopeless lair. To my ladies who are reading this, there are as many women who need to be avoided as there are men. Now I am in no way trying to insinuate that there is not somebody for everybody, but for the main population of good men at hand, you should try to avoid the following.
The Gold Digger
This type of woman is only in it for the money. Not to say that she might not have some inkling of true feelings for you, but primarily it is the money, fame, limelight, etc, that draw them near. Their like moths in that aspect. The downside; many times they are the most beautiful women that you will ever meet. They are funny, gorgeous, and even sometimes intelligent. The only drawback is that they will suck you dry and leave you for the next new hot thing as soon as you cool off. How do you spot the gold-digger in action? It’s not as simple as you may think, that have gotten cunning over the years. The best way to weed these women out are to not spend a dime on them. If you have a nice amount of money, do not use it to lavish them with presents. If they think that you are a tight wad who isn’t into spoiling them, they will fall off in a couple of weeks.
The Cheater
There will always be those girls, the ones that fess up to all of their cheating antics in the beginning. They will laugh it off, and the two of you may even share in the chuckle together. But if it appears as if she has a history of cheating, run away as fast as you possibly can. I’ll be the first one to admit that everyone has the ability to chance if the right moment arises, but if she looks at her cheating with no remorse and/or then takes it as a joke, then it is unlikely that you will be the one to change her mind about her unfaithful ways. There is nothing worse than waking up one day and realizing that the person you love is “loving” people other than you.
The Drama Queen
She’s always good for a laugh and an interesting story, but don’t get sucked into the hysteria. You may joke about the drama that consumes her life, but trust that nine times out of ten its not the people around her, but rather the woman herself. Some people thrive off of drama, and unfortunately, these are the girls you want to avoid in your life. There will always be a fight or some type of conflict or emotion breakdown, even if it does not involve you directly, you will be engulfed in it because you are her boyfriend. It may seem fun at first, but trust me that life gets exhausting extremely fast.
The Wanna Be Bride
For those of you who have serious commitment issues, this is defiantly not the girl for you. She is always a brides maid and never a bride, which means that she will take it how ever she can get it. These women are so marriage happy that they are willing to settle down with the first thing moving if it means that they will get a ring on their finger. Their minds tend to move faster than the average women. So don’t be surprise if within two months she is planning your lives together with a house in the suburbs, 2.5 kids and a dog named Pete.
The Emotional Wreck
These women are carrying so much baggage that they are on the verge of cracking. They have been used, abused, mistreated, and cast aside, which eventually lead them to become emotionally unstable. These women usually have a couple of characteristics that are easy to spot early on. They tend to be bipolar almost. They are overly sensitive, jealous, insecure, un-trusting, clingy, and needy. All these variables in one person does not make for a good partner.
When it is all said and done, there are far more women to stay away from, then I have listed in this article. And like I say, these people are not unlovable. Hey maybe we can match them up with the types of guys to stay away from. I’d love to see that in work. But until next time, keep a watchful eye.
